HOW NOT TO BE A FEMINIST
How not to be a feminist
9/24/2015
10:13 AM
Feminism can be said to be a doctrine advocating social, political and all other rights of women it could also mean an organized movement for the attainment of such rights.
I believe in feminism as a movement, I also believe that women should be given equal rights and opportunity in every aspect of life but you know just as there are extremists in religion, there is also extremism in feminism it is therefore advisable for women to apply moderation in the pursuit of their rights as feminists.
Feminism could be extremely problematic if it is aimed at putting down the male folk by making every woman see the male folk as an enemy and a threat to the success of the female.
Too much feminism could turn out to be arrant stupidity, feminism should be all about fighting for the rights of women not fighting with the male folk or else feminists will be seen as bitter women who are filled with so much hatred.
What are you dragging so hard that you become so bitter towards the opposite sex and every thing they stand for yet you want to be put in a house by a man and taken care of in most cases?
I understand that there are women who work so hard and don't need a man to take care of them. A woman can be financially independent but can she be physically and emotionally independent? Just as there are needs of a man that only a woman can satisfy there are needs of a woman that only a man can satisfy
What right did the female lost that she is fighting so hard to get? Why do some women feel so threatened by the man when in most cases the man has no intention of putting her down?
If it is in a relationship you can actually guide him on how to love you but if you fear that he can become abusive you can quietly walk out because the man did not chain you and nobody compelled you to stay in an abusive relationship.
In most cases feminism makes it appear like the woman is so helpless and has no choice such cases makes the word 'feminist' sound so petty.
Women going bare chested in the streets just because they want equal rights with men is so ridiculous, i was appalled seeing pictures of some going topless on the streets of Europe just because they want equal rights with men.
Feminism should be all about being a woman not trying to be a man in a woman's skin knowing the fact that a man and woman are equal and have separate roles to play in the society and different functions to care out in the family.
In most cases one wouldn't be wrong to say that it is as a result of the failure of the man that has led to the extremism in the feminist movement. In the beginning the man was looked up to as the head figure who goes out and bring back the fail bread for his family while the woman was the caretaker of the home but most men took advantage of this and abused the woman because she had no source of Livelihood and income outside the man so she had no choice.
A lot of women being aware of this scenario decided to fight for themselves by getting educated, learning a skill and starting a trade to enable then take care of their financial needs as most men denied them access to funds whenever there was a quarrel.
It will interest you to know that men of today won't marry a good woman because she doesn't have a job and they feel she has nothing to bring to the table so in most cases women are seen as both the breadwinner and the caretaker this puts a woman under a lot of stress she becomes over stretched and frustrated because she was not designed to play both roles.
Men should play their roles in the family and society at large even if the woman is financially independent a man should make sure that his place as the bread winner of the family is still intact.
But some women who call themselves feminist are becoming over bearing in the process of fighting for equal rights there by making feminism movement look like a big joke.
Women can be feminist by being humble and submissive, pride and arrogance is not a synonym for feminism. We should be comfortable and calm in the feminist movement, putting the male folk down is not going to give the female folk the respect that they desire.
To the young ladies out there, if you have been hurt in you past relationship learn to forgive and free yourselves from the chains of hate and un forgiveness do not see being a feminist as an avenue for vengeance on the male folk just because you had a bad experience with one man, if you decide to walk that road, you will deprive your self from experiencing all the love that the world has to offer.
Women should know that they are special, they are not out to compete with the men.
Do they not know that they are beautiful?
The world is at their finger tips and they can achieve every thing they want to achieve through hard work.
Do they not know that the more they fight the men, the more they give them the privilege to subdue them.
Women should embrace the beauty in their sexuality because more Transgenders are changing to be women than the other way round.
9/24/2015
10:13 AM
Feminism can be said to be a doctrine advocating social, political and all other rights of women it could also mean an organized movement for the attainment of such rights.
I believe in feminism as a movement, I also believe that women should be given equal rights and opportunity in every aspect of life but you know just as there are extremists in religion, there is also extremism in feminism it is therefore advisable for women to apply moderation in the pursuit of their rights as feminists.
Feminism could be extremely problematic if it is aimed at putting down the male folk by making every woman see the male folk as an enemy and a threat to the success of the female.
Too much feminism could turn out to be arrant stupidity, feminism should be all about fighting for the rights of women not fighting with the male folk or else feminists will be seen as bitter women who are filled with so much hatred.
What are you dragging so hard that you become so bitter towards the opposite sex and every thing they stand for yet you want to be put in a house by a man and taken care of in most cases?
I understand that there are women who work so hard and don't need a man to take care of them. A woman can be financially independent but can she be physically and emotionally independent? Just as there are needs of a man that only a woman can satisfy there are needs of a woman that only a man can satisfy
What right did the female lost that she is fighting so hard to get? Why do some women feel so threatened by the man when in most cases the man has no intention of putting her down?
If it is in a relationship you can actually guide him on how to love you but if you fear that he can become abusive you can quietly walk out because the man did not chain you and nobody compelled you to stay in an abusive relationship.
In most cases feminism makes it appear like the woman is so helpless and has no choice such cases makes the word 'feminist' sound so petty.
Women going bare chested in the streets just because they want equal rights with men is so ridiculous, i was appalled seeing pictures of some going topless on the streets of Europe just because they want equal rights with men.
Feminism should be all about being a woman not trying to be a man in a woman's skin knowing the fact that a man and woman are equal and have separate roles to play in the society and different functions to care out in the family.
In most cases one wouldn't be wrong to say that it is as a result of the failure of the man that has led to the extremism in the feminist movement. In the beginning the man was looked up to as the head figure who goes out and bring back the fail bread for his family while the woman was the caretaker of the home but most men took advantage of this and abused the woman because she had no source of Livelihood and income outside the man so she had no choice.
A lot of women being aware of this scenario decided to fight for themselves by getting educated, learning a skill and starting a trade to enable then take care of their financial needs as most men denied them access to funds whenever there was a quarrel.
It will interest you to know that men of today won't marry a good woman because she doesn't have a job and they feel she has nothing to bring to the table so in most cases women are seen as both the breadwinner and the caretaker this puts a woman under a lot of stress she becomes over stretched and frustrated because she was not designed to play both roles.
Men should play their roles in the family and society at large even if the woman is financially independent a man should make sure that his place as the bread winner of the family is still intact.
But some women who call themselves feminist are becoming over bearing in the process of fighting for equal rights there by making feminism movement look like a big joke.
Women can be feminist by being humble and submissive, pride and arrogance is not a synonym for feminism. We should be comfortable and calm in the feminist movement, putting the male folk down is not going to give the female folk the respect that they desire.
To the young ladies out there, if you have been hurt in you past relationship learn to forgive and free yourselves from the chains of hate and un forgiveness do not see being a feminist as an avenue for vengeance on the male folk just because you had a bad experience with one man, if you decide to walk that road, you will deprive your self from experiencing all the love that the world has to offer.
Women should know that they are special, they are not out to compete with the men.
Do they not know that they are beautiful?
The world is at their finger tips and they can achieve every thing they want to achieve through hard work.
Do they not know that the more they fight the men, the more they give them the privilege to subdue them.
Women should embrace the beauty in their sexuality because more Transgenders are changing to be women than the other way round.
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